11 You read their texts/notes over and over again...
10 You walk really slow when you're with them...
9 You feel shy whenever you're with them...
8 When you think about them, your heart beats faster
7 You smile when you hear their voice...
6 When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you... all you see is them...
5 You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...
4. You get high just from their scent...
3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think about them...
2. You would do anything for them...
1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time.....
Friday, February 29, 2008
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
WORDS THAT HURTS
- No matter how right you have been proved and how wrong your partner, don't say, "I you so."
- Arguments are fine, but while fighting refrain from saying nasty things about each others family or background.
- Don't use abusive language with each other even when you are in a bad fight. Your respect for other person should show at all times in what you say even if you are angry. Don't take each other for granted.
- Everybody has a past. But bringing it up during a fight is not only cheap, but disgusting.
- Don't use words that demean the other person or that mock his or her looks or physical shortcomings.
- Don't say, "That's none of your business." Your life is your partners business and he/she has a right to interfere in your life.
Saturday, February 23, 2008
LOVE & TIME
Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.
Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.
When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.
Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."
Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.
Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"
Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,
Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."
Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.
When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.
Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."
Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.
Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"
Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,
Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."
Thursday, February 21, 2008
SAY I STILL DO - REASSURE
You need to express how important your spouse is in your life. However, you need not necessarily rely on grand gestures. You can be with each other and not say these so-called important words and yet manage to convey that the other person is the centre of your life.Couples should aim for such verbiage in action and interaction. You could do this in small ways: compliment your spouse in front of your friends or parents, send an email or sms and design a personal certificate or trophy and gift it. Or, just give a shouldering kiss or right hug to say that he or she is special
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
SAY IT ALL - DISAGREE
Do not be afraid to disagree with your partner. Honest conflict keeps a relationship alive. However, to disagree positively, you need to accept that your partner is an individual with his/her own set of values. "It helps if you can communicate grouses to each other so as to avoid misunderstandings." Share your feelings openly so that problems can be solved in their initial stages.
Misunderstandings often happen because we are afraid to say no to our partners. Saying 'no' once in a while is very important. Too much of compromise makes you lose yourself. A couple can neither be completely independent nor completely dependent. They need to be interdependent. Mutual give and take is important, it helps couples retain individuality, yet be part of a pair.
Misunderstandings often happen because we are afraid to say no to our partners. Saying 'no' once in a while is very important. Too much of compromise makes you lose yourself. A couple can neither be completely independent nor completely dependent. They need to be interdependent. Mutual give and take is important, it helps couples retain individuality, yet be part of a pair.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
SAY WHAT IT IS - BE OPEN
Open Communication helps build trust. We hide nothing from each other. Transparency is crucial to something that your partner does not like, be upfront.If your partner finds out about it later he/she will feel really bad about it and you will have a tough time rebuilding the trust. However, transparency also means tolerating and accepting each others views and habits.
Friday, February 15, 2008
SAY THANKS - APPRECIATE
Appreciate your partner for his/her efforts in dressing well, making dinner and numerous other things that get easily taken for granted. In our obsession with expressing love, we often forget to express respect for our partner. "Let your partner know you have noticed his/her efforts by expressing your appreciation, either verbally or non-verbally. This motivates the person to do things with renewed vigour. This goes for everyday efforts as well.
Sometimes appreciate your partner for keeping time house clean. Everytime you come across something you like about your partner, make sure you pay a compliment. Words are important but they are too superficial to sustain a long-term relationship. They have to be backed by action too.
Sometimes appreciate your partner for keeping time house clean. Everytime you come across something you like about your partner, make sure you pay a compliment. Words are important but they are too superficial to sustain a long-term relationship. They have to be backed by action too.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
DOES LOVE NEED A REASON?
Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:
Girl : Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Boy : I can't tell the reason.. but I really like you..
Girl : You can't even tell me the reason... how can you say you like
me?How can you say you love me?
Boy : I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I loveU.
Girl : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend's
boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Boy : Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,
because your voice is sweet,
because you are caring,
because you are loving,
because you are thoughtful,
because of your smile,
because of your every movements.
The Girl felt very satisfied with the boy's answer.
Unfortunately, a few days later, the Girl met with an accident and went
in comma.
The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:
Darling,
Because of your sweet voice that I love you...
Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your care and concern that I like you..
Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your smile,
Because of your every movements that I love you..
Now can you smile? Now can you move?
No, therefore I cannot love you...
If love needs a reason, like now,
There is no reason for me to love you anymore.
Does love need a reason? NO!
Therefore, I still love you...
"Sometimes the best and the most beautiful things in the world cannot
be seen, cannot be touched, but can be felt in the heart."
Girl : Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Boy : I can't tell the reason.. but I really like you..
Girl : You can't even tell me the reason... how can you say you like
me?How can you say you love me?
Boy : I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I loveU.
Girl : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend's
boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Boy : Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,
because your voice is sweet,
because you are caring,
because you are loving,
because you are thoughtful,
because of your smile,
because of your every movements.
The Girl felt very satisfied with the boy's answer.
Unfortunately, a few days later, the Girl met with an accident and went
in comma.
The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:
Darling,
Because of your sweet voice that I love you...
Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your care and concern that I like you..
Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your smile,
Because of your every movements that I love you..
Now can you smile? Now can you move?
No, therefore I cannot love you...
If love needs a reason, like now,
There is no reason for me to love you anymore.
Does love need a reason? NO!
Therefore, I still love you...
"Sometimes the best and the most beautiful things in the world cannot
be seen, cannot be touched, but can be felt in the heart."
Sunday, February 10, 2008
Saturday, February 9, 2008
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY
IN EVERY YEAR,
WE GIVE SO DEAR,
COMING FROM THE HEART,
RIGHT FROM THE START,
SHOWING HOW MUCH DEVOTION,
USING CANDY, CARDS, & POTIONS,
FLOWERS, SONGS, & PRETTY THINGS,
RUBIES, DIAMONDS, & GOLDEN RINGS,
EMOTIONS OF A WOMAN & HER MAN,
TEST OF TIME YOU’LL UNDERSTAND,
THERE IS NOTHING SO GREAT,
COME-BY-CHANCE, GOODWILL OR FATE,
THIS THING WE CALL LOVE,
SOFT; LIKE A WING OF A DOVE,
BEAUTY; LIKE A GENTLE SMILE,
MEMORIES; LASTING A LONG WHILE,
WE EXPRESS OUR LOVE IN MANY WAYS,
UPON FEBRUARY 14TH, HAPPY VALENTINES DAY.
WE GIVE SO DEAR,
COMING FROM THE HEART,
RIGHT FROM THE START,
SHOWING HOW MUCH DEVOTION,
USING CANDY, CARDS, & POTIONS,
FLOWERS, SONGS, & PRETTY THINGS,
RUBIES, DIAMONDS, & GOLDEN RINGS,
EMOTIONS OF A WOMAN & HER MAN,
TEST OF TIME YOU’LL UNDERSTAND,
THERE IS NOTHING SO GREAT,
COME-BY-CHANCE, GOODWILL OR FATE,
THIS THING WE CALL LOVE,
SOFT; LIKE A WING OF A DOVE,
BEAUTY; LIKE A GENTLE SMILE,
MEMORIES; LASTING A LONG WHILE,
WE EXPRESS OUR LOVE IN MANY WAYS,
UPON FEBRUARY 14TH, HAPPY VALENTINES DAY.
Friday, February 8, 2008
PERFECT VALENTINES DAY GIFT
What's the perfect gift for valentines day? Still searching for the perfect valentines day gift or did you get one!!!The first gift that comes in everyones mind is:
Cards, flowers, chocolates, jewelery. Am I right to some level? But do you think that just buying and giving gifts to your beloved is enough.
Hey sweetie, "I gave you valentines day gift, Now I have to go, I have got some work." Are you one of this guys. Do you just celebrate this day for formality? What's your answer? Well, I would like to hear NO for those question because valentines day is not just about sharing gifts with your beloved but spending Quality time with them. You have to make that day entirely for your beloved: share love and have fun.
The best Valentine gifts are the gifts that can be enjoyed together as a couple. After all that was the intention of the special day, right. To celebrate relationships.
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
VALENTINES DAY DONT'S
Hey guys, check this video and avoid some of the common pitfalls during valentines day...
Tuesday, February 5, 2008
ARE YOU OUT OF WORDS?
Hey Guys, Did this ever happen to you? You are talking with your beloved and after a while you are out of words... You don't know what to say and continue your conversation. This moment of silence is called horrible moments. You should avoid these kind of moments in order to have a healthy relationship. Here are useful horrible moments killer tips:
Ask open questions and listen her:
Asking open questions always works.You can use W W W W H question. .Ohh, by the way W W W W H means why, where, when, what and how. These are very helpful in lengthening your communication. She will feel that you are interested in what she is telling you and will develop her answers.
Listen to her while she is talking and give your opinion back on the subject that she is talking about. She is not there just to hear about you or to talk to herself. She is there to share her feelings and to have a great time.
Compliment her:
Compliments is a very inexpensive way to reach out to your partners heart. It work like a glue and get people together. Give compliments about your partners good qualties and most of all be honest.
Ask open questions and listen her:
Asking open questions always works.You can use W W W W H question. .Ohh, by the way W W W W H means why, where, when, what and how. These are very helpful in lengthening your communication. She will feel that you are interested in what she is telling you and will develop her answers.
Listen to her while she is talking and give your opinion back on the subject that she is talking about. She is not there just to hear about you or to talk to herself. She is there to share her feelings and to have a great time.
Compliment her:
Compliments is a very inexpensive way to reach out to your partners heart. It work like a glue and get people together. Give compliments about your partners good qualties and most of all be honest.
Sunday, February 3, 2008
TEST YOUR BRAIN
SUNDAY -- THE FUN-DAY
This is really cool. The second one is amazing so please read all the way though.
Read out loud the text inside the triangle below.
Count every " F" in the following text:
FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTI
FIC STUDY COMBINED WITH
THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS...
(SEE BELOW)
HOW MANY ?
-----------
------------
-------------
WRONG, THERE ARE 6 -- no joke.
READ IT AGAIN !
Really, go Back and Try to find the 6 F's before you scroll down.
The reasoning behind is further down.
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---------------
The brain cannot process "OF".
Incredible or what? Go back and look again!!
Anyone who counts all 6 "F's" on the first go is a genius.
Three is normal, four is quite rare.
Share this to your friends. It will drive them crazy.!And keep them occupied for several minutes..!
This is really cool. The second one is amazing so please read all the way though.
Read out loud the text inside the triangle below.
More than likely you said, "A bird in the bush," and........
if this IS what YOU said, then you failed to see
that the word THE is repeated twice!
Sorry, look again.
Count every " F" in the following text:
FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTI
FIC STUDY COMBINED WITH
THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS...
(SEE BELOW)
HOW MANY ?
-----------
------------
-------------
WRONG, THERE ARE 6 -- no joke.
READ IT AGAIN !
Really, go Back and Try to find the 6 F's before you scroll down.
The reasoning behind is further down.
-------------
---------------
The brain cannot process "OF".
Incredible or what? Go back and look again!!
Anyone who counts all 6 "F's" on the first go is a genius.
Three is normal, four is quite rare.
Share this to your friends. It will drive them crazy.!And keep them occupied for several minutes..!
Friday, February 1, 2008
BIRD AND WHITE ROSE -- a lesson to learn
Love is bliss. Love is beauty and romance. Love is caring as well as sharing. Love is sacrifice and responsibility. Love in a relationship is a blend of all. Love doesn't care about face or race. Love can happen to anyone at anytime with anybody. Love has no limitations. Love is endless and it's the most precious thing in the world.
Today, I'm going to share one short but heart-touching love story that I received from my friend.
Characters in a story:
Bird (female)
White Rose (male)
Once upon a time a bird fell in love with a white rose. One day she (bird) proposed him (white rose), but white rose refused. White ro
se said I don't love you. Bird daily came and proposed him. Finally, white rose said when I turn red, I will love you. One day bird came and cut her wings and spread her blood on the rose and the rose turned red. Then the rose realized how much bird loved him but it was too late because bird was dead.
So respect the love and feelings of the person who loves you.
Today, I'm going to share one short but heart-touching love story that I received from my friend.
Characters in a story:
Bird (female)
White Rose (male)
Once upon a time a bird fell in love with a white rose. One day she (bird) proposed him (white rose), but white rose refused. White ro
se said I don't love you. Bird daily came and proposed him. Finally, white rose said when I turn red, I will love you. One day bird came and cut her wings and spread her blood on the rose and the rose turned red. Then the rose realized how much bird loved him but it was too late because bird was dead.So respect the love and feelings of the person who loves you.
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