Imagine!! You are in the Pyramid and there are many secret doors. Inside one door, you found the bags full of gold. When you got inside the door, the door started closing. Now you have two choices, either leave the bag and exit to explore new things or stick with the bag and stuck in one place forever. What will you do in that case?
Well that's just an imagination. But in real life, it happens too, but in a different way. Instead of bag full of gold, it's full of memories, past memories. You got some, I got some, every person has some kind of history, or "baggage", although at varying levels. Carrying baggage of the past is the burden for your present. You cannot ruin your present because of past. Past is gone and neither you can change it or neither there is any benefit remembering it. But is it easy to forget the past? The pain, heart break, broken relationship that you have gone through. Well, it won't be easy, but it won't be good either to stuck up in one place and keep hurting yourself thinking about the past. You have got your whole life ahead.
It's hard to forget everything instantly. Give yourself time to jump into a new relationship. Indulge yourself into things you have never done and always wanted to do. There is a saying "Idle mind is a devils workshop". When you have nothing to do then you keep remembering your past and it will make your life miserable and will make hard for you to start over again. So keep yourself busy as it helps to heal you fast.
Learn from the past and come out a better and stronger person. This allows you to step into a new relationship with better knowledge of what not to be. Leave the past baggage behind, focus on today, and look forward to tomorrow.
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Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts
Friday, January 11, 2008
Saturday, December 29, 2007
Tips To Spark Your Relationship
As time passes by, the spark of the relationship starts to fade out. You will find something missing between you and your beloved. You remember those days when you both first met and had lots of love and affection to give, promises kept to love forever. But now when you think of those days, it has just became a memory because the love, promises you and your partner made were just limited into HISTORY.
But what if you can really bring back those days (your happy days)? Don't you want to lighten up your fizzling relationship ? Make it an amazing relationship that you had dreamed of. If the answer to above question is "YES" , then you are the one to make it happen. Here are some tips to spark your relationship:
But what if you can really bring back those days (your happy days)? Don't you want to lighten up your fizzling relationship ? Make it an amazing relationship that you had dreamed of. If the answer to above question is "YES" , then you are the one to make it happen. Here are some tips to spark your relationship:
- Give a surprise gift to your beloved, hide it in the bag or below the pillow, or in the car etc.
- Put a flower and a love note beside your partners bed so that it will be the first thing to see when your partner wakes up.
- Serve your partner breakfast in bed.
- Remember the first time you date. Go on a date and revive those days.
- Send flowers to your beloved at their work place.
- Plan a surprise trip out of town / Take your partner somewhere new.
- Write a poem or a love letter and put it in their lunch bag or mail.
- Dedicate a song to your sweetheart over the radio.
- Explore new hobbies or interest and participate together.
- Make time just for your beloved.
- Touch your partner. It doesn't need to be sexual only. Touch your partner in affection, compassion. Let your partner know that you will always be there for them.
Sunday, December 23, 2007
3 tips to get a girl like you
There were moments in your life that a girl of your dream appeared in front of you and you were not able to get her attention. She doesn't even knew your presence around her. You were trying your best to get her attention. But Where did you go wrong? There may be many reasons for your failure. But the main reason is the way of presenting yourself. Presenting!!What the hell is that? It's simple...It's the way of displaying yourself in front of others. The way of presenting reflects your personality and the girls like guys with good personality. So, here are 3 tips that will help you move one step ahead:
Positive vibe and attitude:
Always display positive vibe and attitude. It not only attract girls, but also makes a great impression around people.
Be energetic and fun loving:
Girls are attracted to fun loving guy. Always have fun when you are around girls. Be natural and don't do something stupid to show yourself energetic and fun lover.
Smile:
Smile is one of the powerful tips to attract girls. Girls are smile addicts and one smile can move you a one step ahead on getting a girl.
With these tips, you are getting one step further in your love life and seeing your dream come true.
Positive vibe and attitude:
Always display positive vibe and attitude. It not only attract girls, but also makes a great impression around people.
Be energetic and fun loving:
Girls are attracted to fun loving guy. Always have fun when you are around girls. Be natural and don't do something stupid to show yourself energetic and fun lover.
Smile:
Smile is one of the powerful tips to attract girls. Girls are smile addicts and one smile can move you a one step ahead on getting a girl.
With these tips, you are getting one step further in your love life and seeing your dream come true.
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Choosing the right partner
Choosing the right partner is very important for healthy and happy relationship. If you are not able to make a right choice, then you will be facing a lot of problem in present as well as in future. Do not rush in choosing your partner. Take your time to know about that person that you are going to spend your life with.
It is important for both guy and girl to choose their partner carefully. This stage determines how strong your relationship will be. If you make mistake in this stage then your relationship will not last long. The only thing that you get in return is grief.
See an example below what happens if you did not choose the right partner. The picture seems funny but the consequences could be worst than this.

Ability to take a quick decision is great, but in relationship, you have to take your time before you take any serious steps.
It is important for both guy and girl to choose their partner carefully. This stage determines how strong your relationship will be. If you make mistake in this stage then your relationship will not last long. The only thing that you get in return is grief.
See an example below what happens if you did not choose the right partner. The picture seems funny but the consequences could be worst than this.
Ability to take a quick decision is great, but in relationship, you have to take your time before you take any serious steps.
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Tips for getting over a breakup
Moving on after a breakup is difficult. Remembrance of your ex makes it more hard for you. This ruins your life and it not only affects you but all the other people who cares for you. So, here are some tips for getting over a breakup:
Allow yourself to cry. Get those feelings out.
Change your environment / Travel new places, meet new people.
Get rid of the things that reminds you of your ex.
Don't just stay in a room. Get out and have fun.
Keep yourself busy / Engage yourself in your favorite activities (sports, music, reading).
Spend time with your friends.
"Sooner the Better", Sooner you implement it, Better you start to feel. You have got your whole life ahead. So enjoy and kick the past misery out of your life.
Allow yourself to cry. Get those feelings out.
Change your environment / Travel new places, meet new people.
Get rid of the things that reminds you of your ex.
Don't just stay in a room. Get out and have fun.
Keep yourself busy / Engage yourself in your favorite activities (sports, music, reading).
Spend time with your friends.
"Sooner the Better", Sooner you implement it, Better you start to feel. You have got your whole life ahead. So enjoy and kick the past misery out of your life.
Sunday, December 9, 2007
Be original, Be yourself
Original is always better than duplicate. No matter how good duplicate looks from outside, sooner or later it will fade out. This goes for relationship too. Do not pretend to be other that your are not, always Be Yourself. Never put a mask to hide the real you. You cannot pretend for long and change yourself completely. The outcome of this will tremble your relationship.
So whenever you are getting into a relationship, be honest with each other. Do not pretend to be what you are not in order to impress other. Let people love and admire you for what you actually are.
So whenever you are getting into a relationship, be honest with each other. Do not pretend to be what you are not in order to impress other. Let people love and admire you for what you actually are.
Saturday, December 8, 2007
Should I go for the kiss?
Should I go for the Kiss or not? This question comes in many guys mind when he thinks a girl is interested in him. Is she really interested in him?
The secret to find out if she is interested in you is understanding her BODY LANGUAGE.If she is interested, then here are some signals that she is sending out:
1. Leaning towards you by raising her shoulders.
2. She compliments you.
3. Smile a lot.
4. She exhibits curiosity about you.
5. Keeping her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks.
6. She is jealous of other women you talk to.
7. She makes a reference to future activities together.
8. Walk by you many times at a club or restaurant.
9. Touch you a lot during conversation
When you find out that she is interested in you then go for the kiss..Don't wait for the last minute. You have got nothing to lose. What the worst could happen to you. She just say no. That's it..
The secret to find out if she is interested in you is understanding her BODY LANGUAGE.If she is interested, then here are some signals that she is sending out:
1. Leaning towards you by raising her shoulders.
2. She compliments you.
3. Smile a lot.
4. She exhibits curiosity about you.
5. Keeping her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks.
6. She is jealous of other women you talk to.
7. She makes a reference to future activities together.
8. Walk by you many times at a club or restaurant.
9. Touch you a lot during conversation
When you find out that she is interested in you then go for the kiss..Don't wait for the last minute. You have got nothing to lose. What the worst could happen to you. She just say no. That's it..
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